Dr m kadri a positive change

sometime in our life we need a  change of direction

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Positive Change

Life is a collection of changes, so don't avoid changes, take every change as a challenge, some give success and some act as the stepping stones to success

Some time in life we need a new direction to help us to succeed.  It means a change of direction into a new world of happiness and into the land of success

Our consultant who specialise in a change of direction can help you and point you into the new direction to help you on the way to a successful and happy life style you desire

There comes a time when you must stand alone. You must feel confident enough within yourself to follow your own dreams.

 You must be willing to make sacrifices. You must be capable of changing and rearranging your priorities so that your final goal can be achieved.

Sometimes familiarity and comfort need to be challenged!! There are times when you must take a few extra chances and create your own realities... Be strong enough to at least make your life better!!

Be confident enough that you won't settle for a compromise just to get by yourself by allowing yourself the opportunities to grow, develop and find your true sense of purpose in this life!

And remember this: Don't stand in someone else's shadow when it's your sunlight that should lead the way!

There are many paths in life, all leading every which way.

 At times it may be too dark to see the way or we may choose a path that says No Entry.

However the path we choose makes us the people we are. Without these walks in life we would get bored, tired and stagnant. We lose that spark that every human being has, that light, and that life. Be who you want to be, walk where you want to walk, love who you want to love and make life what you want it to be.

Before I can help you, you must be willing to accept change  

You need to be able to welcome change, accept change and be willing to change in order to enabling me to help you to succeed.

Eliminate negative energy from your mind and body and turn it into success

we can help with

positive, warm energy

Change of body language

Change of  manners

Change the country you live in

Change your outlook on life

Change people around you that spread negative energy

Change the way you feel about yourself and others

Change how you feel internally

Change to your emotions

Change any emotional feelings which hold you back from moving forward

Stop you from blaming others for your failure

Change the way you value yourself

Stop criticizing others in order to cover your faults

Trying to initiate being strong rather that just being yourself 

Change from being lazy into becoming an ambitious person

Changing bad thoughts and stop  blaming yourself

Change from an troubled mind into a healthy, happy, body and mind

Changing your bad habits into new ways for success

Changing your eating habits to encourage surplus, positive energy

POSITVE CHANGE FOR SUCCESS

Positive Change

Life is a collection of changes, so don't avoid changes, take every change as a challenge, some give success and some act as the stepping stones to success...

Think what kind of changes to your life you really want

We will help you to lay down new, solid platform of foundations for a very happy and successful future ahead

 Why wait years, months or even day to make a positive change when you can do it right now?

  Talk to our positive change adviser today

We will put you on right path leading into a new, happy and successful future

What changes would you like?

we will help you to make them happen!

Home, Country, Job, Life, Relationship, Body, Future

 Luck, Business and Career

The choices is yours!

Did you know?

The gate way into the land of success and into kingdom of happiness

Is

Our

Mouth and the word come out it

It would be great benefit to you find a Balance word

To help you on the way to find the golden key into the gate of kingdom of happiness success and brighter future.

Honesty

Telling the truth helps you feel secure and peaceful inside.

 What is honesty?

• Honesty is telling the truth.

 • Honesty is straight forward conduct.

 • Honesty is being sincere, truthful, trustworthy, honorable, fair,

 genuine, and loyal with integrity.

• One falsehood spoils a thousand truths.

Lies

Ask me no questions and I'll tell you no lies

Lies is not the receipt into the kingdom of success

Very few people recommend lying, but you might have your reasons. Whether you're an investigative journalist going undercover or you're being asked for your opinion on a horrendous bridesmaid dress that's already been paid for, the key to convincing someone you're telling the truth is to strike a good balance between fact and fiction. Ask yourself: "Who is more blameworthy, the liar or the believer in lies?"

Hello and welcome into the land of lies...

Decide if what you are lying about is worth the effort and the potential consequences. It is a personal decision. You need to be realistic with yourself. It is easy to become a compulsive liar and ruin your life. Under what circumstances are you willing to risk damaging relationships, reputation, and future opportunities and do the benefits of telling the lie outweigh the risks?

In our mind there's no storage for lying so the best and only way forward is to be honest truthful.

Jealousy

 Is Jealousy Eating you up?

What can you say about jealousy?

Your husband comes home one evening with the faint hint of a woman’s cologne. Your suspicious heart leaps and concludes that he is having an affair. Later, while he sleeps, you go through his pockets and wallet searching for telephone numbers, a dinner receipt or some evidence to confirm your doubts. Sound familiar? Well, it happens to the best of us – we all have our fits of suspicion and bouts with jealousy. In fact, some people say that unless you feel jealous in a relationship, you are not really in love.

Jealousy, the Green Monster.
Severe jealousy is an acerbic negative emotion. 

It refers to a strong, obsessive desire for someone’s exclusive love, attention, and affection. In a personal relationship, it causes someone to doubt the fidelity of his/her partner.

How different is jealousy from envy?

Jealousy exists side by side with love, like a dark angel waiting at the wings. Envy has more to do with wanting somebody else physical attributes, success, social and economic status, and possessions. Jealousy is angry and possessive; envy is wistful. And while jealousy can turn violent and destructive, envy is usually harmless.

The Root Of Jealousy.
Insecurity is the basic cause of jealousy. Insecurity in yourself, your relationship, and in what you have or don’t have. Jealousy stems from volatile feelings that something about your life is not secure or in danger. A jealous person is insecure. He is threatened by other people’s confidence, power, and attractiveness. He fears that what he lacks will result in the abandonment by his loved one. Jealous people usually have the selfish notion that they "own" their partner. Insecurity and loss of trust trigger jealous people to think up scenarios of their loved one being unfaithful. They worry and imagine him/her having a romantic liaison with another person; they fear and worry that he/she might be "stolen" away from them.

When Jealousy Turns Bad.
A little bit of concerned and controlled jealousy is actually healthy for a relationship. But jealousy turns sour when it becomes obsessive and is accompanied by fixated questioning of loyalty, intense possessiveness, excessive controlling, and wanting to know everything – where he/she’s been, with whom, when, etc. Uncontrolled obsessive jealousy is dangerous when it leads to physical aggression, violence, battering, and abuse. Some cases even end up in passion homicide caused by rage and temporary insanity.

How To Combat Jealousy.
The major problem with jealousy is that people who are jealous are driven by insecurity, persecution, loneliness, and self-pity. These negative feelings keep them from thinking rationally. Jealousy is one of the harder emotions to deal with and control. Here are a few ideas to consider and mull over if the green monster afflicts you.

Face your jealousy; don’t deny it. Don’t wait for your emotions to burst before taking action. Jealousy is a signal that something needs fixing in a relationship; disregarding it will only make things worse.

• Realize that you can’t own anyone. Even if you are married, you can’t fully control the emotions and actions of your partner. In reality, you cannot be the sole object of his/her attention and desire.

• Double-check your suspicions. Don’t let imagined, unfounded things ruin your relationship. Verify if what you perceive to be happening is truly happening. Once you are sure, try not to be too negative and harsh in your confrontation.

• Build yourself up. The best thing you can do is to restore your self-confidence and improve your self-esteem. Be beautiful and successful, and make him/her want and love you again. Feeling unattractive? Work on being better-looking and more desirable.

• Restore the trust in your relationship. In the first place, avoid breaking and losing the trust you have for each other. Once lost, your partner’s trust will take a lot of time and effort to gain back.

• Talk it over. Tell your partner exactly what is troubling you. S/he might just have the truthful explanation to dispel your doubts. Communication can close the gap between you and your partner and heal the hurt.

• Establish rules and guidelines. In a relationship, be clear about what you are willing to commit to and what you won’t tolerate. Make sure you are not too restrictive though. Furthermore, always listen to the other person’s side and suggestions.

• Resist prying. Don’t be tempted to go looking for clues or loopholes to reinforce your doubts and suspicions. You will just end up miserable. Besides, snooping will surely turn off your partner and you might just end up losing him/her.

• Consult an unbiased third party. Get the opinion of somebody else to see if your feelings and accusations are valid. Define your problem and ask for solutions. Sharing your feelings will lessen the hurt and sorrow. If all else fails, go for professional counseling.

*Junk jealousy. It's self destructive. Realised that all relationship have to be work on, and pray. Praying helps especially if you do it together.

1. Telling the truth lets everyone know what really happened. There's less chance of misunderstanding, confusion or conflict.
2. Telling the truth protects innocent people from being blamed or punished.
3. Telling the truth allows everyone to learn from what happened.
4. You usually get into less trouble for telling the truth than for lying (and getting caught).
5. Other people trust you more when you tell the truth.
6. You don't have to tell more lies to keep your story straight.
7. You gain a reputation for being truthful - a trait that most people value.
8. Telling the truth helps you feel secure and peaceful inside

Trust

... takes years on building trust..

but only a second to destroy !!!. 

What is trust?

People have trouble developing trust if they have:

When will there be normal solutions for the emotional pains of normal people?

In recent times, it has become quite difficult to tell what is normal from what is abnormal in any mind. Any attempt to define what is “normal” tends to raise unnecessary debates due to one of the ABCs of the mind – its fluidity. However what is more important in the midst of unhelpful arguments and debates are people suffering in an epidemic of unhappiness. Unfortunately, because there are no statutory services for normal people who are suffering psychologically, but are not mentally disordered per se, the treatments for disordered people are routinely offered to normal people to little or no avail. By focusing on the fundamentals of the mind, uses the normality of difficult emotional experiences, their natural antidotes and prevention to offer a route to happiness and fulfillment.